Jesus commonly used parables to explain heavenly ideas to people on earth, and He used ordinary situations and images to convey His messages. Today I discovered an illustration from my own life. I had been making paper flowers and had started working on making their centers. I cut out strips of paper and starting cutting slits down the side. It was tedious and my wrist started hurting after a while because I had to cut dozens of strips. As I started cutting slits in one of the strips, I accidentally cut too far and cut off part of the strip. Oops.
The strips needed to be long enough so when I rolled them up they would fit snuggly in the center of the flower. I didn’t crumple up the strip and throw it away because I don’t like giving up and I like making things work, so I wondered what to do with my “oops” strip.
My mistake made me think of how this is like our lives. We mess up, we go too far, we lose something (our temper, reputation, integrity, etc.), we have an “oops” moment. Whether we meant for it to happen or not, we end up as someone or in someplace we do not want to be and we’re not sure how to fix it. When in such circumstances there are several choices. One can sit there and try to figure out what to do, or one can choose to be upset and angry and pout, Or, one can humbly go to God with the “oops” and give Him all that there is and let Him be the master of the rest of that life.
No one can change the past, but God can remake the future. The Bible is filled with examples of people that messed up and then turned to God and let Him rework and change their lives into something beautiful. God is creative. He can use whatever you have, even if you think it is not much. There is a story in John 6:5-13 where Jesus used a boy's 5 small loaves and 2 small fish to feed 5,000 people. He can make things work. He can make things beautiful. He is God after all. He created the whole universe. He can make all things work for the good of those who love Him. All one has to do is surrender.
The alternative is trying to fix our mistakes on our own. We try, hoping no one will notice how bad it is, or we just try to find a way to forget what happened. Maybe we want to try and fix it on our own because we don't want to humble ourselves and admit we need God.
No one is perfect. Everyone has done something wrong, but it’s not going to get better unless God takes control. It doesn’t matter if you made a big or little “oops,” just give God whatever you have left and watch what He can do.